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Speaking of shame, oh my goodness: a lot of good work has come out lately about healing and hope, about grit and grace. The best book on shame is the deeply Biblical and soundly theological study The Soul of Shame by neurologist Curt Thompson, whose groundbreaking first work on brain science, faith development, and life insight is The Anatomy of the Soul.
We were just with Curt Thompson and the team from his nonprofit, The Center for Being Known (and those from the New Story counseling practice) for their annual “Connections” conference. As Curt describes in his amazingly thoughtful and excellent volume The Soul of Desire there are formed all over the country intentional “Confessional Communities” that are healing cohorts of those wanting to know and be known, who are willing to tell their stories in vulnerable ways to supportive friends. Out of the training they do for these Confessional Communities emerged these yearly gatherings with some of the top communicators and practitioners in this therapeutic space. It was a privilege being their on-site bookseller.
From psychotherapists to recovery group facilitators to counselors to social work professionals, and (mostly) other interested folks, hundreds of delighted people gathered to be an ad hoc community and interact with amazing speakers and teachers and musicians for a couple of days.
Here are some of the books that we sold well at this 2026 Connections Conference (held not far from us, this year, in the Baltimore area.) We have each of these at 20% off.
First, the speakers at Connections 2026.
DR. CURT THOMPSON
Curt is founder of the Center for Being Known and head honcho and best friend of the event. Dozens of his team made it very special for us all, but up front, he was the man! I hope you know his books. Put his name into our BookNotes archives and see the many times I’ve highlighted each. He is the author of four books.
The Anatomy of the Soul Curt Thompson (Tyndale) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
This was Curt’s first book and as an old acquittance I was thrilled to see the Doctor writing so refreshingly insightful and solid stuff about the interface between brain studies and spiritual practices. When I hear him speak today — and he has just gotten better and better as a compelling and delightful public speaker and teacher — I think that bit was in his first book. I think it is essential and it is often used in seminary and college classes. It isn’t daunting, either, although it does have a lot of substance. These surprising connections “between neuroscience and spiritual practices can transform your life and relationships.”
The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe about Ourselves Curt Thompson (IVP) $28.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $23.19
This, for many, is one of the most important books they’ve ever read and I understand why that is so often said. It is the best book on the subject (and there are a lot of great books on this topic, from the science of Brene Brown to the lovely Louis Smedes to the older one by Sandra Wilson to the brand new Shame Redeemed: Learning to Live in Christ’s Freedom by the black author Toni Kim.) Read ‘em all, and more if you want to, but everybody should read Soul of Shame. It is nearly a foundational book for a Christian view of things, and is nicely rooted in the unfolding Biblical narrative — you know, a good creation that went haywire, the move from Eden to East of Eden, and God’s own redemptive process through the Story of Scripture. There is some neuroscience which is clear and solid, and theology which is winsome and helpful. What a great book.
The Soul of Desire: Discovering the Neuroscience of Longing, Beauty, and Community Curt Thompson (IVP) $29.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $23.99
Oh my, this is one of the most moving and beautiful books I have ever read even if it is hardly known in many circles. It isn’t simple but the gist (I oversimplify) is that for real healing to happen in our broken inner lives, we need others. And, together, we need to reframe or re-wire our desires. (Think of James K.A. Smith and his important work on ‘we are what we love’ and the role of desire that shapes our thinking.) So — get this! — Thompson shows how music and art can be used to re-wire what we might think of as our brains, but, perhaps, are really our hearts. By using beauty in therapy — he shows people abstract paintings by Mako Fujimura, who wrote a fabulous foreword explaining why his paintings appear in glorious full color in the book and how he values collaboration with Dr. Thompson’s innovative, allusive, suggestion-rich therapeutic model — he finds that those with relational problems are able to see deeper into what they really want. Like good sessions of psychotherapy, these communities that he forms to consider art together are transformative. Can we re-work our deepest yearnings? Can beauty experienced in community help us discover stuff and name it and learn to see God’s hand in the wreckage and glory?
Out of the suggestions in this book folks are forming what Thompson terms “confessional communities.” It isn’t exactly what you think, but we really do need safe spaces to confess, to name stuff, to be supported and given care and hope. The Soul of Desire spells it out. It seems to be Curt’s most substantive book, and his most beautiful. Highly recommended.
The Deepest Place: Suffering and the Formation of Hope Curt Thompson (Zondervan) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
I have said before at BookNotes that I love this book. I wasn’t sure the book ecosphere really needed yet another book on suffering —we have a hundred good ones! — but I figured if Curt was writing it, it would be special and good. Little did I know just how very special and very good it is.
Yes, he is still a Christ-loving, Biblically-informed, faith-based therapist. Yes, he specializes in neuroscience and there is plenty of that in this book, as with this others, too. Not scholarly or off-putting, but just enough brain studies to help us see how we are wired and how God’s choose, usually, to work with humans. But — oh my goodness — this is mostly a Biblical study of a section in Romans about endurance and hope. How we suffer and what might emerge from it is a perennial question and having a doctor who is a psychiatrist and neurologist and Bible student do this work is extraordinary. I do not quite know another book like is, and it is, oddly, not as well known as his others.
The Deepest Place is a provocative title and “the formation of hope” is a phrase that is nearly worth the price of the book. Can hope be formed in us? Read this book, even if you’re not that interested in his others. It is well worth it.
RICH VILLODAS
It was a real delight to be with Rich, who treated me like an old friend. Yes, I’ve said good things about his good books, and we’ve corresponded a bit, but his graciousness to me was more than lovely. I thought his sermon at the Connections thing was spectacular and his workshop on contemplative prayer — his next book, next year, I gather — was dynamite. Not every evangelical pastor is so fluent in this stuff. His books are very readable, a bit challenging, really interesting. They fit in perfectly at the conference. What a joy. He is the pastor of New Life Fellowship in Queens, NY.
Deeply Formed Life: Five Transformative Values to Root Us in the Way of Jesus Rich Villodas (Waterbrook) $19.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.20
This came out in the thick of the Covid years and yet it became known and sold well. It had a cheerful tone, rooted in his mentor Peter Scazzero’s “emotional healthy spirituality” approach, and yet, as a Latino New Yorker had some spunk that sometimes aren’t in books on basic Christian living. I liked his call to not just being a disciple but being formed in the way of Jesus, including on issues of racial justice.
The blurbs on the back and inside are mighty and persuasive, from important voices. Karen Swallow Prior, Brenda Salter McNeil, Brian Zahnd, Ken Shigematsu, Bryan Loritts and more.
The book invites us to slow down and go for more depth to get away from the endless noise and glitter and shallowness of big evangelicalism. He invites us to five main values — contemplative rhythms, racial justice, on-going interior examination, sexual wholeness, and nurturing a missional presence.
Good and Beautiful and Kind: Becoming Whole in a Fractured World Rich Villodas (Waterbrook) $18.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $14.40
With a forward by the wonderful and gracious writer Ann Voskamp, this book which has some prophetic bite to it is lovely and delightful. But yet, yes — the title comes from a poem by the great Black Harlem poet Langston Hughes.
Rich is not the first pastor to preach about racial diversity and multi-ethnic ministry to much applause, but who was then blasted for suggesting that (in the world as we know it, and in the Biblical world as well) there are systemic injustices, structural questions, principalities and powers that bake racism into our ongoing world system.
Eugene Cho was the President of the nonpartisan anti-poverty citizen’s action group Bread for the World at the time and he celebrated this nicely:
It’s not a secret that we are living in difficult and fractured times. Such times can be reasons for not just helplessness but more dangerously, hopelessness. Thankfully, there are servant leaders like Pastor Rich Villodas who don’t pretend to have all the answers and yet are not afraid to invite us to walk ‘a better way.’ –Rev. Eugene Cho, president and CEO of Bread for the World, and author of Thou Shalt Not Be a Jerk: A Christian’s Guide to Engaging Politics
Reconciliation and justice require new frameworks and practices to reach the next generation. In this book, Rich Villodas has given us a path toward goodness, beauty, and kindness when we are rooted in the way of Jesus. — Latasha Morrison, founder and CEO of Be the Bridge, and author of Be the Bridge: Pursuing God’s Heart for Racial Reconciliation
The Narrow Path: How the Subversive Way of Jesus Satisfies Our Souls Rich Villodas (Waterbrook) $18.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $14.40
We highlighted this when it first came out in hardcover and we are glad it is not in paperback. Rich preached from this book, among others, at Connections and his focus on a couple of lines from the Sermon on the Mount (on poverty of spirit) was powerful.
The fun story (and I don’t doubt he’s not the only preacher to use this illustration) of that great seen in Harry Potter when the tents at the Quidditch competition seemed so small but once you go in, it is expansive — so expansive. That was his teaching about the “narrow way” that Jesus insists upon. It may be a narrow gate, but, indeed, it’s expansive in the Kingdom. What a wide-open, beautiful and good kind of generous life we can live once we enter the Kingdom. Together, we live in this expansive, blessed, happy way of life, hard as it may be.
In what he reminded us as one of the greatest and well known and consequential talks in the history of the world, Jesus’s short Sermon on the Mount becomes a reset on the way to a good life.
A book written for all those ‘who are weary of anchoring their lives in the unfulfilling promises of the surrounding culture, ‘ those who find the broad way, essentially, ‘do whatever you want and follow the crowd, ‘ to be revealing itself as exactly what Jesus warned–a path toward death, not life–and those who are interested, intrigued, and deeply drawn to the possibility of Jesus and his narrow way. — John Mark Comer, author and founder of Practicing the Way, author of Into the Quiet
Rich Villodas is one of the necessary voices of our time. As we wrestle to understand how Jesus speaks to our current day, Rich makes the words of Christ accessible. Leaders like him are rare. This book is needed. — Lecrae, Grammy Award-winning artist and producer, author of Set Me Free: The Good News of God’s Relentless Pursuit – Poetry and Essays

Waiting for Jesus: An Advent Invitation to Prayer and Renewal Rich Villodas (Waterbrook) $18.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $14.40
This small-sized hardback makes a great little companion for the upcoming Advent season (or a great small gift) but don’t let the brevity or size fool you. This is beautiful writing, good stuff, convicting and transformative. I’d like the four-fold format even if I didn’t really trust the author. Rich is a rare evangelical preacher with Spirit fire in his bones, but who is being shaped by the quiet, contemplative style. He is deeply Biblical without being stuffy. He’s got a broad social vision without being a stereotypical activist. What’s not to like?
In each of the 24 Advent readings you’ll find:
- Silence and prayer Pause for a few moments. Take a breath. Rest.
- Scripture Read a short passage about the wonder of Jesus.
- Quotes Read short, inspiring thoughts from Christians through the ages.
- Self-reflection Bring your full self to God and enjoy his presence.
JO SAXTON
We had the joy of selling books at an event where Jo Saxton was the speaker a dozen or more years ago. (It was a Fresh Expressions event in Alexandria, Virginia, with all kinds of very cool folks; it was an ecumenical weekend I’ll never forget.) Jo at the time had one handsome and powerful book (published by IVP) called More Than Enchanting and it was in the vein of missional theology, whole-life discipleship making a relevant difference in the social context we find ourselves in. Just about then the missional church movement was asking how ordinary people have this same culturally-savvy, critically-engaged way of being in but not of the world. She was a fun, snarky, upbeat, powerful communicator. She really does inspired others to consider their callings and perhaps step into fresh leadership roles. That first book was about being a history-maker and world-changer, for women. Nothing like it, really, to this day. Thanks be to God for her.
She’s a bit older, now, and just as spicy. What great talks she gave at Connections. As an African woman raised in London, she has a great accent. You can almost hear her global vibe in her punchy, inspiring writing. I’m not kidding. She is the courageous founder of the Ezer Collective, an initiative “dedicated to investing in women leaders around the world, giving them the tools to own their voice and boldly step into their calling.”
More Than Enchanting: Breaking Through Barriers to Influence Your World Jo Saxton (IVP) $21.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $17.59
This is it, her first book. It was given a new cover a few years back and I know that most people really dislike the cover and are turned off from the book by the look. Trust me, please. This is a great book. See above. Thanks!
As a woman in leadership, More Than Enchanting made me want to yell out, ‘Somebody gets me!’ Jo Saxton is a leadership coach, an encouraging mentor, a thorough theologian, and a consummate preacher. Her use of Scripture and storytelling creates a practical guide on how to navigate the challenges and triumphs of leadership. I want every woman in leadership I know to have this book! — Amena Brown, spoken word poet, author of Breaking Old Rhythms
Dream of You: Let Go of Broken Identities and Live the Life You Were Made For Jo Saxton (Waterbrook) $17.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $13.60
This is a readable book, a bit of a memoir, seemingly, and a good follow up to her powerhouse book of coaching and exhortation, More Than Enchanting. It offers insights for all of us, but seems especially for those that need to reset their send of call, looking at their own vocational disenchantment, maybe. It seems to me there is a play of words in the title — what has been your own dream of your life? And what is God’s dream for you. As one who edited a book called Serious Dreams, I am really interested in this word play. I know many of our customers will love this book.
As the child of Nigerian immigrants raised in London, Ms Saxton knows firsthand how quickly the world can cause us to doubt our dreams and question who we are. As the cover says, “She understands how easily we can exchange our true child-of-God selves for an identity built on lies, guilt, and brokenness.”
In this powerful book, Jo examines Biblical figures and shares her personal story as she invites you to “turn to the One who knows you intimately and loves you deeply. He sees all you’ve struggled to hide. He hears the voice inside you that others have silenced. He knows the potential and purpose that no one valued”
The God we know in the person of Christ, through the power of the Holy Spirit, wants to redeem the story of our lives. This is what she means when she says this book can help you find the path to reclaim The Dream of You.
Ready to Rise: Own Your Voice, Gather Your Community, Step into Your Influence Jo Saxton (Waterbrook) $18.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $14.40
I think this PR bit from the publisher captures the vibe of this lovely, inspiring, but prophetic paperback. It came out in 2020 and they wrote: “In this particular cultural moment, where the momentum of #MeToo meets raised voices over injustice in wage equality and minority representation, popular speaker and podcaster Jo Saxton wants to move women beyond disempowerment. Instead, she draws women together to grow their grit and to establish new partnerships that will have a powerful chain effect.”
Yes, and more. This isn’t just for women, even it is written in a woman’s voice for other sisters. I’m telling ya, this is good stuff.
“Our ability as women to own, shape, and steward our experiences and stories will directly influence how whole and healed our communities can be. In a world brimming with hopelessness, brokenness, and sin, this is the exact book we need to fully step into our leadership to restore not only our broken communities but our broken selves in the process.” — Jenny Yang, vice president of advocacy and policy at World Relief, co-author of Welcoming the Stranger: Justice, Compassion & Truth in the Immigration Debate
ADAM YOUNG
Adam was in some ways one of the centers of the Connections event. He’s only got one book but his theme — making sense of your own story as you courageously face up to your wounds and consider how God can do new things out of all that — was central. He studied under the therapist and scholar Dan Allender He had studied under Dan Allender (and continues to work as a visiting fellow at the Allender Center.)
Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything Adam Young (Baker) $22.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $18.39
I cannot tell you how powerful this speaker was and what a joy it was to be with him. I had reviewed his book a year ago, maybe, and we’ve sold a few whenever people are browsing back through old BookNotes. I have cited it in a workshop I have done on story and storytelling (along with stuff like the fabulous peace building book, Between the Listening and the Telling: How Stories Can Save Us by Mark Yaconelli or the recent Story Work: Field Notes on Self-Discovery and Reclaiming Your Narrative by G.G. Renee Hill, both on Broadleaf Books.) So I went into this as a fan of Adam Young. (As did a number of participants, we learned, as he has a popular podcast called “The Place We Find Ourselves.”
As I’ve said, Adam studied under Dan Allender (and continues to serve the Allender Center as a Fellow) and is a practicing trauma-informed therapist. He’s grappling with his own healing and unwrapping the memories of his own convoluted past. His talks were vulnerable — telling of the need for physical touch as a calming presence — and practical (he told about various parts of the brain and how they respond to music!) Anyway, I was really impressed — especially when he was citing Walt Brueggemann as one who understands him. Anyway, I really value his book — I agree with the publishers promise that it will help you engage your own story “as seriously as God does.” If you are at all intrested in this sort of stuff, yoiu should order Make Sense of Your Story. It’s so good. I hope he has another book in him.
Without a doubt, you will not be the same person you were when you began this book. — from the foreword by Dan Allender, author of The Wounded Heart
Adam Young has become one of my favorite people to learn from. Make Sense of Your Story has the power to lead us into the whole and healed life we all long for. To do this work requires much of us, but we have a trusted and incredibly skilled guide in Adam. I can’t recommend this book enough. — Rich Villodas, pastor of New Life Fellowship and author of The Narrow Path
SARA GROVES
The speaking and sharing and live performance of Sara Groves, with the songs so poignant and tender and honest, was a prefect supplement to this creative weekend. What a blessing she was. I hope you know her albums (and I hope she writes a book sometime.) Her workshop on creativity and the arts — we had a big section of appropriate titles on writing and creativity and aesthetics in our lives — was very well received.
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In this sort of space there are deep and significant overlaps of interest — speakers cited Walter Brueggemann and Brene Brown and Dan Allender and Desmond Tutu and the powerful C.S. Lewis fictional project, Til We Have Faces and Miroslav Volf. We sold books on trauma and relationships and anxiety and mental health, of course, but also sub-categories like loneliness or friendship or sabbath or cultural studies.
(Also, there was interest in payer and inner transformation, spiritual disciplines and formational practices, not to mention books about the skills of spiritual direction. What a joy to feature brand new books by Jeremy Sims and John Mark Comer and Ruth Haley Barton and Jen Pollock Michell alongside classics by the likes of Ronald Rolheiser and Dallas Willard and Howard Thurman. I’ll list a few of those further below.)
Here, below, are some random ones that give a glimpse of that part of the display. All are 20% off and you can order them using the simple order form link below. Come on!
I am again reminded, passionately, how important this kind of reading is. Many at the book display at Connections told us how this author or that book was so very helpful; healing, even. Please don’t miss some of these life-giving books. Maybe start a reading group at your church or a book club in your living room? Let’s spread good words in these hard times.
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Who You’re Becoming: The Slow and Courageous Work of Cultivating Character in a Narcissistic Age Chuck Degroat (Tyndale) $18.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.19
I could describe this again, as I did briefly before, but, wow, Degroat gets better with every single book (and we have them all!) I admire him greatly. This really is about virtue and the formation of character. Let’s just listen to what other impressive folks say. Don’t skip these — they say so much about the man and the new book. Dan Allender calls him a “soul cardiologist” and “a brilliant reader of the human heart.”
Chuck DeGroat’s latest book, Who You’re Becoming, is a powerful and much-needed invitation to the slow, sacred work of becoming a whole person. In a world that rewards image over integrity and platform over character, this message could not be more timely. What makes this book especially compelling is that Chuck doesn’t just write about this kind of inner formation he embodies it. Chuck is a person of deep integrity, humility, and courageous self-awareness, and that is exactly why his is a voice we can trust–and why this is a book every single one of us needs to read. — Dr. Alison Cook, author of The Secure Soul and host of The Best of You podcast
We’re in crisis. Abandoning our ancient commitment to character, to integrity of soul, we are being ravaged from the inside. These pages, from such a wise, heart-full guide, are truths to heed if we want to be whole. Chuck is a beloved professor and therapist — but more, he’s a friend committed to loving well and telling the truth. And God knows, we sure need the truth right now. This is a book for our disintegrating time. — Winn Collier, director of the Eugene Peterson Center for Christian Imagination and author of Love Big, Be Well and A Burning in My Bones: The Authorized Biography of Eugene H. Peterson
Rarely do I refer to a book as a “must read.” But rarely do I come across a book as incisive and inspiring as this one. It is indeed a “must read” for anyone taking up the mantle of ministry and leadership. With timeless truths spoken directly to our particular age, Chuck has given us a great gift in this remarkable and healing book. — Amanda Held Opelt, author of Holy Unhappiness
And read this, carefully, by one of the most eloquent t writers of our time, Steve Garber, whose book Hints of Hope we also had at the Connections event:
At our best and truest we are pilgrims, called into lifelong journeys, which are “cultivated through faith, strengthened through hope, and embodied through love.” In his deeply imagined new book, it is clear that Chuck DeGroat is a true doctor of the soul, paying attention to what matters most in our desire for a coherence born of the reordering of our loves and longings. Drawing us into a prayerful examination of our selves, always both honest and yet hopeful, with his poetic blessing we are invited to ponder more carefully and to live more faithfully. Threaded through with the wisdom of church history and the insight of contemporary science, in their different ways addressing our disposition to fragmentation and our yearning for integration, Who You’re Becoming should find its way into conversations and classrooms the world over–with sons of Adam and daughters of Eve who are becoming more whole people, and therefore more holy people. — Steven Garber, author of Hints of Hope: Essays on Making Peace with the Proximate and Senior Fellow for Vocation and the Common Good, the M.J. Murdock Charitable Trust
Order it today from us and we’ll send it right out at our 20% off discount. You won’t regret it.
Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself–And to God–When You’re Wounded, Weary, and Wandering Chuck Degroat (Tyndale) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
Okay, if those many quotes about the new Degroat book don’t strike you, try this one. This is a game-changer kind of book, a study of the deeper stuff inside, the stories that have Mal-shaped and misinformed us of our very lives. My goodness, this was a blessing and a provocation as I ponder this stuff anew. You too?
I could pick so many words in Healing What’s Within that ministered to my soul. But I choose just two now: redemptive remembering. Those healing words gently guided me as Chuck reminded me of how our extraordinarily kind and loving God is looking for me.— Laura Barringer, advocate and coauthor of A Church Called Tov and Pivot: The Priorities, Practices, and Powers That Can Transform Your Church Into a Tov Culture
God’s messengers come in many shapes, forms, and sizes, and I believe Chuck DeGroat is one of them. Here, his words wave a bright sword of truth, not swung menacingly to keep out but joyously to welcome in, calling with the tender voice of Jesus, “Here! Here is the way home!” — Tara M. Owens, author of Embracing the Body: Finding God in Our Flesh and Bone, spiritual director, and founder of Anam Cara Ministries in Colorado
While we are indeed fearfully and wonderfully made, we are often wounded, weary, and wandering. Healing What’s Within supports our journey toward a holy wholeness. –Christina Edmondson, cofounder of Truth’s Table Foundation; coauthor of Truth’s Table and Faithful Antiracism
The Secure Soul: Finding Inner Strength and Connection When Trust Doesn’t Come Easy Allison Cook (Thomas Nelson) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
With each Allison Cook book she becomes more well-known and has earned the right increasingly to be heard. She is a popular level write but with serious academic chops. She knows her stuff, has studied trauma and other hard times, and we were right to bring her books to the Connections book display. Some readers there loved her I Shouldn’t Feel This Way: Name What’s Hard, Tame Your Guilt, and Transform Self-Sabotage into Brave Action and her break-out book, Boundaries for Your Soul: How to Turn Your Overwhelming Thoughts and Feelings Into Your Greatest Allies. If anybody thinks that is just a replay or rip off of Boundaries they couldn’t be more wrong. Think attachment theory and codependence and emotional regulation and sweet, healthy freedom!
The Secure Soul brings it all together and looks fantastic. It is quite new, still, and those who have read it are raving. Yes, it is about attachment theory, Do you know Cyd and Geoff Holsclaw’s Landscapes of the Soul: How Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You Into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection? Or Sacred Attachment: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion and Trusting in Divine Love by Michael John Cusick? Or The Emmanuel Promise: Discovering the Security of a Life Held by God by Summer Joy Gross? This is in the ballpark of those deeply spiritual works, although I gather Cook is a therapist, not a pastor or theologian.) Yay.
Alison Cook was given to the church for such a time as this. Writing as both a trained therapist, a spiritual sage, and a devoted follower of Jesus, Cook engages one of the biggest felt needs of our generation, but with the kind of wisdom and authority our culture has not been able to provide. If you have ever struggled with identity or insecurity, you are going to soak up every word of this book! –Sharon Hodde Miller, Author of Free of Me: Why Life Is Better When It’s Not about You
With The Secure Soul, Alison Cook had not merely offered us a book to be read. Rather, she has prepared for us a feast, one with several courses, each of which could be — but should not be — devoured. No, they must instead be slowly ingested, digested and metabolized. For herein lie words of vulnerability, healing, conviction, and recommissioning upon which the reader must meditate slowly over time so as not to miss the depth and richness of what we have come to know and expect from our author. Read this, and encounter the liminality of the God of love who is with us. — Curt Thompson, MD, Psychiatrist and Author, Anatomy of the Soul and The Deepest Place
Strong Like Water: Finding the Freedom, Safety & Compassion to Move Through Hard Things — & Experience True Flourishing Aundi Kolber (Tyndale) $17.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $14.39
Perhaps you’ve heard of her big seller Try Softer. This is even better, for the “exhausted, burned out, and those maybe disconnected from their truest God-given selves.”
I love how this reframes the notion of strength and what it means to be “the strong one.” Although Kolber is a licensed professional counselor that is especially appealing to women, I think men should read this. She has a specialization of trauma-and-body-centered therapy, I think this is wise for anyone who is tired of just coping, holding stuff in, and wanting to learn a new sort of flourishing. What if strength is “more than pushing on and pushing through pain on our own? What if, instead, it’s more like the tide: soft and bold, fierce and gentle, moving together as one powerful force?”
Shame Redeemed: Learning to Live in Christ’s Freedom Toni Kim (IVP) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
This is brand new and I haven’t looked at it yet, much, other than to know that Curt Thompson wrote a very impressive forward. She is a strong, Asian-American writer and it is good to have a person of color in this space of books about healing and trauma and resilience and hope. There are 15 chapters and a good study guide, staring with our status with God (that gives us freedom) to finding freedom from unhealthy shame, and then what it means to find “freedom to be unashamed.” She invites us to “follow the crucified King” and consider our eternal glory. This is the true redemption of shame and I am eager to read it. You, too, maybe?
Listen to this, by the great author and psychologist Sheila Wise Rowe:
In Shame Redeemed, Toni Kim gives voice to the struggles of those bowed down by shame. Toni is a compassionate truth-teller who shares powerful stories from her own life and the lives of others. She offers insights, spiritual exercises, and the Word as weapons that expose, combat, and extinguish internal and external voices of shame. This book is a gift to anyone who seeks to heal and learn to embrace and walk fully in their identity as beloved children of God. — Sheila Wise Rowe, author of Healing Racial Trauma and Seeds of Racial Healing and coauthor, with Nicholas Rowe, of Healing Leadership Trauma
Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling Dr. Dan B. Allender & Cathy Loerzel (Zondervan) $28.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $23.19
I could do a whole BookNotes just on the books by Dan Allender (some co-written with his old college roommate, the great Old Testament scholar Tremper Longman.) Allender famously co-founded (with his co-author Cathy Loerzel) the Allender Center which is affiliated with the graduate program The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. Our Connections speaker Adam Young came out of those institutions and brought a raw sort of energy and honesty to his amazing talks. This book is one of the great resources in this genre of our time. I would read anything Allender has written, but this really is a vital, key, important text.
When they suggest that the pain of your past “has prepared you for great joy in your future” they are not at all minimizing or dishonoring the story of our past hardships or trauma. As Kay Warren puts it, “Dan and Cathy insist there is a way to metabolize headache, allowing it to be themes by which we become a beautiful blessing in our world, a living testament to the redemption and goodness yet to come.”
It Dan’s great book Sabbath he says that weekly celebration of feast and rest and fun — re-creation! — allows us to imagine and rehearse and in some way inhabit the goodness and beautify of the new creation. Here, they make a very compelling case that looking backward to our past hurts and suffering can help us with a present healing that points us to some joy-filled future. I don’t think they call it eschatological, but that’s part of it. They provide “a powerful and biblically trustworthy method for transforming emotional pain and trauma.” Your wounds “are the unlikely guides to living out your deepest calling.”
Made for People: Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship Justin Whitmel Earley (Zondervan) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
I’ve highlighted this before, along with his other best-sellers — his breakout The Common Rule, the one applying those principles to family life, Habits of the Household, and his most recent, The Body Teaches the Soul: Ten Essential Habits to Form a Healthy and Holy Life which was a tremendous read and very stimulating. Made for People may be his most important, though, welcoming us to a life of being known. As Kyle Edelman put it, it is “A clarion call to covenant friendship — a deep, abiding love that comes from vulnerability.”
At Connections, Curt, Adam, Jo, Rich, and Sara all spoke about community, about how we are built to need others. Loneliness is not only an epidemic these days (affecting the health and happiness of millions) but it is a deep impediment to Christian discipleship. I really, really appreciated this easy-to-read but very thoughtful study. Don’t miss it!
The Great Belonging: How Loneliness Leads Us to Each Other Charlotte Donlon (Broadleaf) $16.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $13.59
This compact sized paperback is brilliant. A forward by the great writer Lauren Winner illustrates how well-done it is. You will read it more than once!
I’ve reviewed this before and was glad we thought to take it to this book display at this conference. It was noticed.
Here is some of the PR from the publisher that explains it nicely:
“In an age of mobility and fraying civic life, we are all susceptible to its power. But what if loneliness is a necessary part of the human condition? What if it is a current that leads us deeper into belonging — to ourselves, to each other, and to God? In The Great Belonging, writer and spiritual director Charlotte Donlon reframes loneliness and offers us a language for the disquiet within. Instead of turning away from the waters of loneliness for fear they will engulf us, she invites us to wade in and see what we find there. In vulnerable, thoughtful prose, Donlon helps us understand our own occasional or frequent loneliness and offers touchpoints for understanding alienation. We can live into the persistent questions of loneliness. We can notice God’s presence even when we feel alone in our doubts. Ultimately, Donlon claims, we can find connection that emerges from honesty, and she offers tools, resources, and practices for transforming loneliness into true belonging.”
Charlotte Donlon is the author, also, of the recently released Spiritual Direction for Writers: Everyday Rituals for Your Writing Life, which we also have, by the way, at 20% off as well.
The Connected Life: The Art and Science of Relational Spirituality Todd W. Hall (IVP) $21.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $17.59
Oh my, this book was perfect for the Connections event (and it didn’t hurt that Curt Thompson himself has an exceedingly complimentary foreword.) As IVP has written to describe it’s context:
We live in an increasingly isolated and lonely world. How do we find genuine relational connection? According to psychologist Todd Hall, real human growth doesn’t come through head knowledge alone but through relational knowledge and strong attachment bonds. This accessible introduction invites us into lasting relationships — with God and others — that lead to authentic transformation.
In our shop we don’t know where to put this, exactly, so we have it under relationships (a shelf in our general self-help and psychology section) and under spirituality. Where else to put a book on “relational spirituality.” Much of the theme of this is attachment theory so we have it with the good handful of titles on that sub-topic, too. Read it and you will learn so much about so much, and want to form better bonds, deeper bonds, with your own spiritual friends.
I love that the thoughtful engagement with neuroscience, attachment psychology, theology, and more from Todd’s previous book is now offered in this engaging and accessible work. The Connected Life offers a kind of antidote to our disconnected lives and to the hidden suffering we endure as a result. It envisions a way back to each other and to God. — Chuck DeGroat, professor of pastoral care and Christian spirituality at Western Theological Seminary, author of Who You Are Becoming
The Connected Life just came out in a paperback edition and we highly recommend it.
You’re Only Human: How Your Limits Reflect God’s Design and Why That’s Good News Kelly Kapic (Brazos Press) $23.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $19.19
We were pleased with ourselves that we brought a couple copies of You’re Only Human and the accompanying devotional, You Were Never Meant to Do It All: A 40-Day Devotional on the Goodness of Being Human (Brazos Press; $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = ) Both were on point for some of the good conversations. We can’t get to a place of honoring our need for others if we see ourselves as somehow above that. Of course that would be the super-ego or a narcissism causing us to think that but for many, it’s just a failure to recognize our limits and the goodness of our creatureliness. Right next to these great books by Dr. Kapic we had Being God’s Image: Why Creation Still Matters by Carmen Imes which has fabulous teaching on the created order and particularly on what it means that humans are made in the image of God.
There was plenty of talk at Connections about God’s created order. The theme this year was wisdom and there was astute analysis (Curt is always really insightful about this stuff) of contemporary culture and the history of the development of our current malaise. His overview of how we moved from an intuitive society to the Enlightenment way of knowing to the information age (and now how we are nearly seen to be machines) seemed to lean on Iain McGilchrist (The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World) and maybe Paul Kingsnorth (Against the Machine: On the Unmaking of Humanity), maybe even Herman Dooyeweerd (The Roots of Western Culture, maybe. IYKYK.) I wish I had thought to bring Parker Palmer’s little book about education To Know as We Are Known which explores education as a spiritual journey, not mere the accumulation of head knowledge. One wise participant reminded me of We Are What We Love by James K.A. Smith (whose magisterial Desiring the Kingdom, by the way, is coming out in a new very revised and updated, expanded edition any day now.)
I say all that to say that in the exploration of wisdom (not just knowledge) there were reflections on the wisdom literature, citing Brueggemann and others, noting how we must absorb the truth of our created-ness and our creatureliness. (Oh how I wish I had brought The Art of Being a Creature: Meditations on Humus and Humility by Ragan Sutterfield.) We did have those several books by Kelly Kapic and I think You’re Only Human: How Your Limits Reflect God’s Design and Why That’s Good News and the accompanying devotional, You Were Never Meant to Do It All were both spot on for this event.You will return to them time and again!

Blessed Are the Rest of Us: How Limits and Longing Make Us Whole Micha Boyett (Brazos Press) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
Oh my, we had this, too, which seemed really germane as well. The back cover shouts, “A must-read for those seeking solace and spiritual wisdom.” Yep. She is a very good writer— decades ago I raved about her book Found: A Story of Questions, Grace, and Everyday Pray and have smiled often about A Rhythms of Prayer that she did with Sarah Bessey.
The blurbs on the back of this show that the writing style and gracefulness are of a different sort, maybe, than Kapic’s above. He is a great theological educator (he has academic books on Reformed doctrine and a book or two n Jonathan Edwards.) Micha Boyett’s book has lovely endorsements not he back from memoirist and poet Mary Karr and renegade Lutheran church planter and feisty author Nadia Bolz-Weber.
One of the unique ways into this conversation about our limits and need for others is in the subtext of this book, the fact that Boyett’s son was born with Down syndrome (and was later diagnosed with autism.) And she was then drawn to the Beatitudes. Wise, indeed, passionate and clear about honoring our limitations (in a world that values performance and perfection) is countercultural. My, my, what a read!
In God’s Good Image: How Jesus Dignifies, Shapes, and Confronts Our Cultural Identities J.W. Buck (Herald Press) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
At a conference designed to inspire people to connect, to unpack their stories, to flourish by learning a bit about neuroscience and spiritual formation and the like, obviously there was discussion of identity. What does it mean that God really loves us and how does that foundational truth shape how we see ourselves and think of others? We had books like The Gift of Being Yourself by the psychologist and spirituality writer David Benner. We propped up the wonderfully-written resource called You Are a Tree: And Other Metaphors to Nourish Life, Thought, and Prayer by the fabulous Joy Marie Clarkson. (As I noted in a previous BookNotes review, that colorful one pushes back against the impersonal way of viewing ourselves and the world by opening up various metaphors in Scripture for who we are.) But we are especially excited to add this to the genre, as well. We have a good number of books about who we are in Christ and how a gospel-centered worldview shapes who we see ourselves to be, and a few of them mention race and ethnicity. This is the best with that approach and I very highly recommend it.
In God’s Good Image reminds us that cultural identity matters — to us and to Jesus, as it says on the back cover. This offers practical but thoughtful advice about how cultural identity fits into our walk with God and how we can foster space for others.
There’s lot about minority cultures and socio-ethnic identities in the Bible. Jesus embodied one particular identity, of course (a Jewish male in first century occupied Palestine) and perhaps stuff about our own heart language and home culture plays a role in shaping how we learn to follow Jesus. The diversity of the Body of Christ matters and that “collective journey” can help point us all to a better expression of God’s good image. The book is well worth reading, exciting and enriching. It has been called “thoughtful and expansive” and, as Jenai Auman (author of Othered: Finding Belonging with the God Who Pursues the Hurt, Harmed, and Marginalized) notes, it can help us “become more spacious, welcoming people who see the cultural other: as our beloved neighbor.”
Life in Flux: Navigational Skills to Guide and Ground You in an Ever-Changing World Michaela O’Donnell & Lisa Pratt Slayton (Baker) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
This is a deeply Christian and truly insightful book that is in the classic “self help” genre. It isn’t about resilience for the wounded or inner meditations for those deepening their spiritual practicers. And yet, it was just right for this event, those seeking ways to be intentional about their unfolding story, those willing to re-think their assumptions about change and health and hope. It takes courage to face great chance and, as was often said at the event, much of the best human response (in community) to true flourishing comes when we — as this book puts it — “face the pain and longings that come with change” and “do the inner work of waking up and letting go.” This book does invite us to listen well to God’s guiding voice, but, to do that well, we must know ourselves (“really” — as O’Donnell and Slayton say.) From finding friends for the journey to “staying attuned to your rhythms and values” moving forward, Life in Flux: Navigational Skills really is a treasure chest of a book. I highly recommend it to anyone.
Michaela O’Donnell, by the way, is at the Fuller Seminary Max De Pree Center for Leadership and has contributed to the conversation about integrating faith and work (see her excellent Make Work Matter.) Lisa Pratt Slayton is a good friend of Hearts & Minds and known as an esteemed consultant in these spaces as well.
The Sacred Pulse: Holy Rhythms for Overwhelmed Souls April Fiet (Broadleaf) $17.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $14.39
It makes sense that some Christian therapists are also certified, or at least use, spiritual directors, and that there was an interest at the Connections event in books about spiritual formation, contemplative spirituality, prayerful attentiveness, slowing down, and the like. We had a whole shelf of books there on sabbath — from our latest fav The Sabbath Way: Making Room in Your Life for Rest, Connection, and Delight (by the lively Travis West) to the classic Sabbath by Abraham Heschel to the recent heady text called Sabbath Gospel: A New Narrative of Time, Rest, and the Work of the Church by Amy Erickson & G.P Wagenfuhr and standards like the great ones by Marva Dawn, Dan Allender, Walter Brueggemann, Ruth Haley Barton, Norman Wirzba, Wayne Muller, and more. And more generic ones about our pace of life, like, for instance, The Radical Pursuit of Rest: Escaping the Productivity Trap by John Kossler or The Quiet Resistance by the excellent writer Andrea Burke which is really creative and practical “invitation to slow down and find a richer life.” And, of course, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. We take that almost everywhere!
But there is something about The Sacred Pulse that made it seem a natural to feature. Maybe it’s the foreword by Chuck Degroat, but there is a very human-scale, down-to-Earth and gentle about this wise invitation to “holy rhythms.” And who isn’t overwhelmed and a bit frazzled these days?? This book seems sort of a combo of an invitation to explore our pace-of-life, a bit about a sabbath lifestyle, and some reflections on healing and joy.
April Fiet welcomes readers into a space that is both contemplative and practical. The book draws on a wealth of spiritual insight to help readers retreat from the busyness of life and recenter their lives around rhythms that heal, restore, and sustain. — Kristin Kobes DuMez, Live, Laugh, Love
I felt seen by this book, in a way that was uncomfortable at first. The unsettling insight into my frenetic performance for God was the opening I needed to hear April Fiet’s invitation: to learn to dance with God again, finding rhythms that are, paradoxically, like rest in motion. — James K. A. Smith, You Are What You Love, On the Road with Saint Augustine, and How to Inhabit Time: Understanding the Past, Facing the Future, Living Faithfully Now
April Fiet shows us how to find our way to wholeness through intention, community, creativity, and a life-giving embrace of sacred time. The rhythm of this book can be heard as a joyous dance to which we are all invited. — Sophfronia Scott, The Seeker and the Monk: Everyday Conversations with Thomas Merton
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This is such a large section in our store — it always has been, but my how the selections have grown in recent years. From deep writers like the exquiste Martin Laird to the accessible John Mark Comer to the lovely and transforming books by Tish Harrison Warren — her recent on spiritual resilience (by way of reading the desert fathers and mothers) called What Grows in Weary Lands was displayed noticeably next to her powerful Prayer in the Night: For Those Who Work or Watch or Weep. Here are just a few more we had at the event, among others.
Leading A Transforming Community: Foundations, Practices, and Strategies for Opening to God Together Ruth Haley Barton (IVP) $25.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $20.79
I adore this writer and we have explained each of her titles here at BookNotes. We celebrated this one a few weeks ago (also at our Three Books from Hearts & Minds podcast.) Many of the participants that the gathering who were browsing our book display noticed it and some were glad it was newly available, but some already had it! Whew! It is a good one, believe me.
As you can tell from the title, this one — while absolutely good for anyone — is a bit less focused on the spiritual practices (like Invitation to Solitude and Silence and Sacred Rhythms) but more on how to lead a community going through these sorts of processes together. We grow in community and community formation which needs friendship and fellowship and forgiveness, of course, but also needs the experience of transformation, the real-world embodied embedded in spiritual communities.
This new book (whether you are a seasoned leader or not) will equip all of us to think well about transforming communities, and will inform and guide those awaiting to form cohorts of spiritual friendship working at stuff together.
Into the Quiet: Following Jesus in a World of Noise John Mark Comer (Waterbrook) $30.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $24.00
This may be the biggest seller in this genre of books this season, and we are very grateful for that. We love the free video curriculum from The Practicing the Way course, based on the book of that title.) Comer and his team have done a number of study guides recently on various practices and faith experiments — from service to solitude, Bible reading to fasting — and yet this one took a whole book. Read it before or after Practicing the Way but don’t miss it. It is appreciated by old and young, evangelical and mainline church folk, for the spiritually experienced and mature to younger beginners. What a book. Countercultural stuff, to be sure. Yay.
The Way of the Spirit: Recognizing and Responding to God’s Subtle Movement Jeremy Sims (IVP) $19.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $15.99
This was one of our best-selling books at the Connections conference and it was a bit surprising since it is so new. A few folks from Florida (who did not know him or us, so didn’t catch our webinar / program with Sims two weeks ago) knew the book and were raving about it. Some others overheard and the little micro-buzz spread. That we pitched it as an excellent, readable, tender, and moving guide to the classic tradition of monks and mystics (by an Assembly of God pastor / teacher) was attractive. Some of us who have read deeply and widely in that field have said that this is one of the very best guides to the Desert Fathers and Mothers, Saint John of the Cross and the Cloud of Unknowing and Julian and Theresa and Brother Lawrence caught peopel’s attention.
If you haven’t watched that hour long conversation I had with Jeremy about the book, please do (HERE). And then order a bunch. It is one of the most helpful books of this sort in many a year.
A Rule for the Rest of Us: An Ancient Practice for Making the Daily Decisions that Shape Faithful Lives Jen Pollock Michel (Waterbrook) $28.00 // OUR SALE PRICE = $22.40
Again, this sort of resource — a beautifully written one at that — is good not just for those drawn to contemplative spirituality or the work of the medieval saints and prayerful thinkers. Granted, she draws on the monastic “rule” of Saint Benedict, but she invites us to use such a construct to “meet God in the life you’re already living.” That is, one does not have to go on a silent retreat or study the mystics or pray the hours like a monk. You can have your life develop with guardrails and guideposts, a rule of life, that pushing you in health directions. A rule that articulates faithful habits helps you stick with them.
Michel has won awards for her great books (such as Teach Us To Want about ambition and desire and Surprised by Paradox: The Promise of “And” in an Either-Or World) and a Hearts & Minds “best of the year” award for her book almost a decade ago called Keeping Place: Reflections on the Meaning of Home. Just to say she’s a good thinker and a very fine writer.
A Rule for the Rest of Us gives us structure and guidance about keeping company with God, about how flexible we want to be, given our season, role, and limitations; it remind us to attend to our desires and by revising, always re-creating or refining “systems for ongoing reflection as life changes.”
This author and this book knows the complicated realities of modern life. She has five children and lives in Cincinnati Ohio. It promises to “help you live with clarity, courage, commitment and care.) Very nicely done.
Vulnerable God: How Jesus Upends Our Assumptions About God — and Shows Us How to Be Human Kenneth Tanner (IVP) $21.99 // OUR SALE PRICE = $17.59
I suppose this isn’t exactly a book about spiritual disciplines or contemplative practices or that monastic sort of spirituality. But, man, what can be more appropriate for an even about imagining a healthy, (being) healed and whole humanity, honoring our brokenness and seeking renewal than a book on Jesus, the Divine One that shows us, in his own humanness, what it means to be fully human.
We had this propped up for all to see and a number of folks raved about it. A few folks asked if we knew Kennth, a beloved writer and pastor at Church of the Holy Redeemer in Michigan. This book is remarkable and I was proud to have it there. I hope you consider it.
As I noted in our first review, not only did I find it deeply moving and consoling and challenging, but other great writers of various sorts of raved. On the back cover we get recommendations by Rich Villodos and Malcolm Guite and Scott Erickson. Wow.
Our Aussie friend, Pastor Mandy Smith and excellent author notes that Tanner shows how “our ordinary human experience reveals not only our need for God but God himself, more like us that we dared hope.” This book may make you weep. And it may make you cheer. Don’t miss it.
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